Sex, Sex and more sex...and Teenagers

The normalisation of sexual behaviour for today's teens has led to all manner of problems.
Why are we seeing boys as young as 14 raping girls?
Why are we seeing a significant rise in abortions in girls aged 11-14?
Why are we reading about deaths of babies at the hands of teenage parents?
The common factor is youth, sex relationships and dysfunction.


If you have girls who are over 7 years old you need to talk to your young girls now and explain what is happening in our society.
Our young girls are getting exposed to a marketing campaign that has no morals. Clothing shops are only interested in selling your kids their products. They are not interested the implications of their products on society. Their answer is “People can make their own decision what to buy”
So the answer is this. Don’t buy these products. Only buy responsible clothing products.
Get involved in your kids lives. Get them playing sport or an activity that they like. Get involved with that activity.
“But Kevin, I need to work to earn money, I’ve got bills to pay”.
Then it's time to change your life. It will cost you MORE if you leave your teens unattended.

Kids wear down their parents. It's their favorite tactic. Expect this and expect them to be good at it.
“You’re so out of touch, all my friends are wearing this” “Do you want me to be the odd one out?” “That’s not fair”
We all want our kids in the best gear; our kids want this so they fit in with their peers. Slowly but surely the bar is being lowered. Quite literally. The tops are showing more cleavage and the skirts are showing more…everything.

Now let’s look at the effects on boys…and more frightenly, on men. It's not just 16 – 20 year old finding adolescent girls “hot”. Parents sit down and pay close attention. Men are also eyeing up your girls having sexual thoughts towards them. As a parent this makes my skin crawl. Yet we can't ignore the fact that most molestations and sexual interference comes from people the victim already knows.

Do you want grown men ogling your daughters having sexual thoughts?

The solution comes back to point one. What is the role of the Parent? The role of the parent is to be a guardian of their children and pass on all of the values and tools so they can be a great adult in their own right.
That means we need to draw a line in the sand regarding the sexual messages our kids are receiving. It's time to set some boundaries.
To cost is too high if we choose to ignore this. You know something is wrong when a 14 year old boy raped 4 x 10-12 year olds, based on what he saw on TV, Movies and understood about sexuality.