Women ask us questions, often knowing they wont like the answer. Do I look fat in this dress? Is she pretty? Past girlfriend questions...the list goes on. What is a man meant to say to that question? If he says yes then all hell breaks loose. Girls, don't even bother trying to defend yourselves against that one. We get all the theatrical explosion in our face....for years to come.
So instead we lie...just to keep the piece. Its just not worth the hassle answering honestly.
Then to make matter worse, women expect men to be mind readers. We try and anticipate what we think the 'correct" answer is. Heaven help us if we are wrong.
This whole process starts at a young age. Teenage girls shame boys (that's the polite way of putting it) and boys just want to be cool around the girls anyway (Look up Testosterone) so right from the outset, boys learn to try and say the right thing in front of girls. This process continues on into the adult world.
The answer? You need to let men tell you the truth no matter how much it may upset you...and make it ok for him to say what he wants to say. No repercussions.
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